I cannot believe I just said that.

I shared a heartfelt and very real sentiment this week.  It wasn't exactly the most appropriate time or place for such a sharing. But, out of my mouth it came, like a sneeze you can't control. There it was, spewing out into the otherwise efficient space.

And it sat there. Briefly.  Awkwardly.  I panicked for a moment. ( I cannot believe I just said that.)

But then,
 a kindness was shown.
Another perspective was shared.

A perspective I really needed to hear.
A perspective with great potential to change my perspective.

These weren't the exact words, but the message was clear.

Don't rob others from their journey just because their  journey is hard.  Be supportive, be there, but don't rescue. It cheats the rescuee. It is their journey, not yours.


( But wait, but wait, I think everything is about me!
                                                              Fine. I'll think about it.)

I am so grateful that the universe always provides people to provide lessons-  just say the magic word... help.

Luckie me :)